After watching the moonlight renansance at Astro on Demand, Zoey have demanded “red nose” from me. I have search high and lo for this toy in fact I went almost all the shopping complex in the golden triangle area to find this toy for her.

Finally, grandma managed to get it from the china shop in our housing area. She like it so much and as normal, refuse to share with mei mei. Thank goodness, popo brought something else for the lil girl.

The relationship between Zoey and Chloe have developed more deeper now. Both of them cannot be separated and in fact, if longer time they are separated, both will look for each other.

For Zoey, no one can take her lil sister away.. She does not want to let her sister out of her sight although sometimes are fight with each other. One pulling their other hair, one beat the other hand and so on so forth…

They do thing almost together all the time. They played with each other, they snatching, pulling all the time together, Now they are inseparable…

What we do for the weekend since we have deepavali public holiday…

Saturday…

as usual, we shopped at carrefour every twice monthly to get our household item. since having Chloe , we have limited to shopped only at carrefour no more tesco due to the distance.

Chloe finally down with the flu virus which she get from me. We did our grocery shopping as fast as we can so that we can reach home earlier. Daddy is working in the morning that why we can only do our shopping in the evening.

Sunday

We make a trip back to Seremban for my MIL birthday. We left chloe with my mom as we do not want to bring her back home due to the hectic journey. As for Zoey, she understand that we are going back Amah house.

mommy: Jie Jie, we go back amah house okay

Jie Jie : no no, I want (to) go jaya jusco

mommy: okay, we go Jaya jusco amah house there

jie jie : okay…

No more lies and promises… She understand alot more since she start school. She loves to sing this song.

gan zoey, gan zoey

“orang” pandai

go school

OR

gan Chloe, gan chloe

“orang” naughty

go amah house

We can see that she can mixed around with her cousin and uncle. In fact, she follow her uncle without mommy and daddy. It is a good sign that she finally become independent but to mommy, it is sad that she no longer attach to me…

some picture captured during the dinner….

 With all the grandchildren

( photo with sons and daughter)

 ( photo taken with one of the son – Hock Sin family )

 Family photo with MIL

 cake cutting with all the sons.

Monday

nothing much that we do except resting at home while daddy need to go back to office. We have dinner later with gong gong as grandma and all yiyi when out for a day shopping at Mid valley.

That is how we spent our long weekend.

Finally, yesterday I have resgistered Zoey to a pre-school near my mom’s place which use motessori ( not sure whether the spelling is correct) program. It was a trial for Zoey before I paid her school fees….

She was there about 11/2 hour with more than an hour on her own. I left her there with the teacher and told her I will pick her up later. She said okay. At home I was so anxious with feeling whether she will be okay, will she be crying and so on.

Instead, she refused to go back home and was crying when she reached home refused to go inside the house. I promised her to bring her to mid valley instead…

today, my mom will be bringing her to school and we see how is goes….

not scare

This girl of mine does not afraid of fall as compared to her jie jie. Each time she attempt to do her own crawl, walk even though she knock so many time she still want to do her own stunt. sometimes, I almost got my heart attack seeing her doing her stunt.

Even when we told her not to do something, like ” mei mei, dont do it, after that the worm worm bite you ” she won’t hear and she still do it” There was an incident, where jie jie already slept leaving me alone with her. I put her on the floor, then I just slept. I woke up suddenly when I felt something is walking on my lips. Then I saw Chloe put the ant on my mouth while I was sleeping. I saw her laughing when I woke up… see how naughty is she…

Food,,

As usual, I have not problem with food when comes to her… she took whatever she give except bread. She dislikes bread very much as opposed to her jie jie… when she cracky, we gave her food…. she will eat and eat…

her naughtyness,

she knew how to fight with jie jie. previously, she will look at her jie jie when jie jie snatched her thing. now, dont expect that now. she will pull her jie jie hair, scratch her jie jie face and beat and bite and so on.. if jie jie took her thing. or she will cried and cried when she want something that jie jie is holding. There are time where she played pulling with jie jie if jie jie refused to give her toy to her.

My house no longer with screaming of a child, there are always noises from both of the girl. sometime, when daddy at home daddy need to bring of them out just to calm the situation. I always got a headache from the noise came from both of them.

Answer.

Chloe know how to give her response to us when we asked her question. She will said ” uh uh” when she want something like :’

- mei mei want to eat mum-mum

- mei mei want to go outside see gong gong’s flower.

she will point using her index finger to show us want she want.

She clapped hand when she do something successfully.

She said “yeh yeh” when she finished off her task like picking up block,etc

So fast time passes… Zoey now in her 40th month progress now.

School

We have yet to start school for Zoey after a few times where she refuse to go school. Then out of the sudden, Siti was playing with her with her book and told her what you expect in school ie you got playground, slides and sort of other thing, suddently she told me, “: mommy, tomorrow go school” … ” mommy, school got slides, “:… mommy jie jie play slide in school” and go on and on until I have to say ” jie, see dark dark outside, school closed. jie jie sleep sleep first then you wake up, we go school, okay’ then tomorrow we start the cycle again…

Reasoning.

When Zoey was about 2-3 years back then, she won’t accept reasoning. She will want her own way. If we doesnt give in, she will screamed her lung out worst thing, until she vomit. however, since her 3rd birthday. she seldom cried that much now. she will take our reasoning although sometimes she does not give in so easily but sometimes she does. Sometimes she took her own reasoning if we does not want her to do something…

- jie jie cannot take block go popo house, mei mei sleep, block fall down, popo angry (with) jie jie.

- Jie Jie sick, cannot take vitagen, tomorrow only take okay.

-mei mei naughty, mommy angry.

Rice.

Since young, she does not like porridge. She took cereal up to age 2 . Later, we introduced porridge to mei mei , she started to take porridge, but not, she started her main meal in rice be it, fried chicken with rice, fried rice, etc… sometimes when she does not want to finish her rice, I will told her this ” jie jie dont want to finish your rice, mommy cooked porridge for jie jie ” then she will quickly finished off her portion.